The marriage Fu Caili prevalent in African countries. Simple folk, the old man to the animal skins, ivory, Toba,air jordan, beads, shells or berries for the bride price, directly to the woman, these are only the two sides are determined to marry a keepsake, and thus it is not to mention "marriage cost . However, in recent years, in many areas of Africa, the bride price has been upgraded into a cattle and sheep, which led to the rising costs of African marriage.
Old social ethos, making it difficult to change the reality in many cities and towns such a phenomenon: young men and women fall in love,ray ban pas cher, and sometimes can not afford to pay the bride price, it is difficult to formally married. With the acquiescence of the parents of both sides, first cohabitation, to be had savings, and then be submitted to the Fu Caili,herve leger dress, formal wedding. Wedding, people can often see the bride and groom side, there are always two or three, or even accompanied by five or six children. These children are neither maid of honor, nor the servant of the dowry, but their own flesh and blood. It turned out that they have been living together for many years, His children have had to make the trip. In fact, Fucai Li on the long-term cohabitation is nothing more than a challenge to the traditional marriage customs. Unfortunately, this challenge does not adhere to in the end, the final challengers still cross-the Fucai Li's compromise. However, this showed that people began to try to fight the marriage must pay Fucai Li such bad habits.
The drawbacks caused by the bride price, and now many people know, so many African people of insight in to appeal to change our habits, and legislation to strictly limit the unhealthy trend of the bride accept the bride price comparisons. South Africa's Inkatha Freedom Party said in a statement: "the intention of the bride price was supposed to improve women's status, making her feel her worth, rather than giving her a heavy burden. However, the bride price is now completely changed the taste, and many men would think, so many head of cattle sent to the woman home, so the woman must give birth to more children, more work,herve leger, or else lose out, man's cruelty to a wife more and more, must have legal restrictions the number of bride price. "
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By pirates push up the cost of a wedding
In the modern metropolis of Africa, some women will even asked the man to buy the marriage room. East Africa's largest economy, Kenya, sharply due to the country's capital, Nairobi is a pleasant climate, beautiful scenery, by the Somali pirates favored by many pirates buy luxury in Nairobi, raising beautiful, soaring prices resulting in Nairobi to lead a lot of young people to buy the cost of the marriage room. rise. Somali pirates in an interview made it clear that they would not have a lifetime to do the pirates must be "retired" early preparations, Nairobi is the first choice of their retirement homes. Kenya real estate agent pointed out that, under normal circumstances, 10 years Nairobi prices can rise times, but has jumped three times in the last five years. Nairobi real estate agent said some Somali customer in order to complete the transaction as soon as possible, even willing to pay 2 times the price.
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However, as the people's living standards improve and the price increase, parts of Africa economically developed regions people's vanity and peer rapid expansion, the cost of the marriage of these places is also a geometric growth, the scope of the bride price is not only only in cattle and sheep began to appear on the form of cash, Africa's most economically developed South Africa, for example,ralph lauren, claim kinship with the royal family, the cost is very alarming. South Africa Zulu king of the ancient 'Vere Ziwei Le Ti Benny made it clear that a queen gave birth to him 15 the princess and the 39 sons, but who wants to marry a princess, or at least should be sent 114 head of cattle to do the bride price! Even more shocking is the general manager of an airline in South Africa, Kaya will be a beauty contest winner in South Africa happen, no matter, said that he sent to the woman, the bride price is as high as $ 400,000.
The reality of the drawbacks of the bride price
African wedding costs paid by the man, then the breakdown of the marriage,ray ban, bride price,louboutin, how should I dispose of it Many tribes have long formed a set of roughly the same for everyone to follow the practice. The husband does not have a legitimate reason for divorce, the woman reclaim the bride price. Offered to divorce his wife, or divorced by her husband with adultery and infertility, the man the right to request to be returned in full bride price. To avoid refund the bride price, the woman's parents tend to persuade or to force her daughter to admit to her husband, re, and another daughter to the groom, continued the knot marriage. If the man does not accept there is no other way, the woman had no choice but to refund the bride price. The woman if not refunded the man to find the original middleman accounts, or request the chiefs and court intervention. In some tribes, the woman who adhere to reclaim the bride price, the man on the organization of some people, carrying bows and arrows spears, looking for the woman forced to ask. The woman sometimes organized manpower to confront. In this way, the bride price disputes often lead to bloodshed.
For this change, some sociologists explained that in Africa in the past the vast majority of tribal nomadic, grazing cattle and sheep by men, the role of women. In recent decades, many tribes settled down to agricultural or pastoral sideline for a living, women wielded pickaxes in the field has become the main labor force. Daughter married, you will lose a labor; Qujin a wife, it is nothing more than an additional labor. In this way, agreed to the match, lost labor of the woman's family, required to obtain a labor of man to the bride price given financial compensation, it seems "logical" thing. The number of bride price, because to vary,mercurial, in general, the most common is more than a dozen head of cattle and sheep. However, to the pursuit of the identity of the family woman, the man will take the initiative to improve the number of bride price. Goldwyn,ralph lauren pas cher, once the pursuit of former U.S. President Bill Clinton's daughter Chelsea lad of Kenya, for example,louboutin, the bride price up to 20 cows and 40 sheep out to the Clinton family.